宝宝上学
问题:
宝宝6岁2个月上的小学，今年上二年级。一年级上学期读的是七对七的班（就是早上7点多一点上学，晚上7点以前放学回家），晚上还有作业，半年下来宝宝脸色差极了，于是决定坚决将他转到普通班。一直以来老师反映宝宝上课不能集中，作业很慢，鼓励批评都不能长时间起作用。老师很严厉，耐心也很不够，一年级的时候发现老师还动手，担心宝宝掉下来，我在家也有打宝宝，事后后悔死，晚一年上学不至于这样，现在又该如何？休学？留一级？都不好操作。急！急！急！？？？
回答:
照你宝宝的情况，让他上学稍微早了点，一般是六岁半或是七岁上学正好，现在讨论这个已经没意义了。现在能做的就是给宝宝换个班级或是学校，一定要找个有耐心的老师，现在你不能要求宝宝考多少分，关键是培养他对学习的兴趣，如果这么点，就失去了学习的兴趣，他以后的十几年将是非常痛苦的，而且有可能会中途退出。再就是那么小，你给他的负担太重，从早晨七点学到晚上七点，那他还有玩的时间吗？不用说小宝宝，就是我们也会觉得累的。在家里，你也一定要改变方法，一定要让宝宝玩，看看他对什么感兴趣，以此来引导他的学习，并与老师多沟通，共同引导。我不知你生活在哪做城市，但现在的口号是给学生减负，学校为什么会设立这个七对七的班？小学的课程并不难，只要他别落下，你就尽管放心地让他玩就行了，一定不要让他失去兴趣，我推荐你看一下黑柳彻子的《窗边的小豆豆》即使找不到那样的老师，但相信你会从中获得启发。
回答:
别把大人的思想强加于宝宝的身上，幼稚的心灵如何承受如此的负担。成龙成凤社会自然会赋予，童年应该就是快乐的。
回答:
宝宝太累了，宝宝的思想压力也太大了，不如做到顺其自然的好，宝宝今年上五年级了，学习上已经基本上是自觉的了，今年才给报了一个补习班，每周六的早上十点钟才上一节课，在这之前从未报过班。宝宝必定是宝宝，玩是宝宝的天赋，宝宝每天除了完成老师布置的作业以外，就是早上背背单词，中午做做资料，晚上临睡前读一篇小文章，其余时间就是玩，只要我们做家长的放正心态，和宝宝多沟通，我相信我们的宝宝不比任何人的差。你说不是吗？
Question:
my 6-year-old son, 2 months on the primary, the second grade this year. First grade last semester to read is the seven pairs of seven classes (7:00 am is a little more than go to school, from school before 19 o’clock to go home) at night, there are operations, six months down the extremely poor children face, and he firmake lovey decided to go regular classes. Teachers has been reflected in school children can not concentrate, operating very slowly, encouraged criticism of the role can not be a long time. A very strong teacher, patience is also not enough, first-year teachers also found the time to do, worry about children falling, I have to fight their children at home after the death of regret, not to go to school later this year, how now? School? Stay level? Not a good operation. Urgent! Urgent! Urgent! ? ? ?
answer:
According to the situation of your child and let him go to school a little early for that, typically half the age of six or seven-year-old school is now to discuss this has no meaning. Now the children can do is to change classes or schools, we must have the patience to find a teacher, you can not ask a child how many points test, the key is to develop his interest in learning, if such a point, it lost interest in learning , he will be more than a decade later it is very painful, and may be drop-outs. Then so small, you can give him a burden too heavy to learn from the 19 o’clock 7 o’clock, he was also playing time? Needless to say a child is that we will feel tired. At home, you must change the method, we must allow children to play, take a look at what he was interested in, in order to guide his study, and communicate with their teachers, co-lead. I do not know what do you live in the city, but now the slogan is a burden to students, schools, why would the establishment of the seven pairs of the seven classes? Primary school curriculum is not difficult, as long as he do not fall, you may rest assured to let him play on the line, and must not let him lose interest, I recommend that you look at Tetsuko Kuroyanagi the “small window Peas” can not be found even if as the teacher, but I believe you can draw inspiration.
answer:
Do not thinking of adults on children’s shoulders, how childish mind to bear such a burden. Cheng-Feng Chan will give the community, is a happy childhood should be.
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The child was too tired to children’s thinking too much pressure, it is better to be good to go with the flow, my son’s fifth grade this year, the study has essentially conscious, and this year to a school newspaper, every Saturday morning until ten o’clock on a class before in this class have never been reported. Children must be children, play is the child’s talents, in addition to my son every day to complete assignments outside of the teacher, that is, the word am back back, recreating the data at the evening reading a small article临睡前, and the remaining time is to play, as long as we do is take the mentality of parents and children communicate, I believe that our children worse than anyone. You say is not it?